SEVEN WAYS TO MAKE YOUR MARRIAGE DIVORCE PROOF!!!

Marriage is supposed to last “forever,” isn’t it? When we decide to get married, we truly believe that forever will happen. Sometimes that’s easier said than done, because most of us don’t have realistic guidelines or tools to know how to make a marriage last. When we fall in love, we usually think that’s all we’ll need to be happy. However, when “reality” sets in and a couple has their first real argument, they both realize that their partner isn’t perfect.

In the beginning of a relationship, we do our best to give our partner the benefit of the doubt, expressing our love and goodwill, even when we’re upset. However, as time goes on, it can get harder and harder to resolve arguments and, therefore, harder and harder to feel loving and forgiving towards our partner. It’s at these times that we start to ask ourselves, is there a secret to making a marriage last? Is it really possible to live happily ever after? Can I make my marriage divorce proof? The answer to all of these questions is YES! However, the hardest question to answer is: How do we do it? How do I have a lasting, happy marriage that doesn’t end in divorce court?

The first thing to remember is that keeping a marriage healthy and happy is hard work and will not happen on its own; just like a flower won’t grow if it isn’t watered and fed. Marriages need nurturing, tending to, time, and energy! We often forget that a marriage contains two human beings who both need to be appreciated, heard, valued, and respected. With this in mind, here are seven ways to make your marriage last:

STEP 1 LISTENING SKILLS!! 

   Keep the lines of communication open. If you don’t know how to express your feelings and/or have poor listening skills , learn to get better at both. You can read a book, take a class, get into counseling. Good communication requires both the ability to express and listen.

Both of you can't talk at the same time and do the listening to, One have to just listen when other is speaking or expressing his/her feelings!! Trust me, by doing this, u both will enjoy your Marriage Life!

   Keep your finger cross for the next STEP